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May 9, 2010: Granny Bea Photo Tribute, Ramble #7

I’ve written here before about my “Ramble” creative writing project. On Dec. 30 of 2009, I sat down to write a Ramble entry for my late grandmother Beatrice Ridings, who was widely known to many as Granny Bea, Aunt Bea, or Ms. Ridings. I had two wonderful grandmothers who have now passed on, and luckily for me, Grandma Eileen Darnell, who we called Bam, was also tight with Granny Bea, so on more than one occasion, I was able to enjoy them both simultaneously. At long last, I have published a separate collection for Grandma Bam, and below, I am very proud to share my tribute to Granny Bea.

When I was studying communications at the University of Central Florida, I had a professor named Tom Morgan. One of the sage bits of advice Mr. Morgan shared was a suggestion that we do video interviews with our grandparents, parents and others we love while they are still around. I took that advice and sat with Granny Bea in her kitchen one day back around 1989 or so, asking her questions about her life and recording her answers. Much to my dismay, I have not been able to locate that videotape since she passed away in 2001. Since going through that experience, I recorded an interview with Grandma Bam before she left us, and I look forward to sharing that with others who knew and loved her.

Photo of Granny Bea in her kitchen, circa 1970, taken by my cousin Daniel Ridings.
In the meantime, for Granny Bea, we have pictures like the ones you can hopefully see above, some great video footage my cousin Bart Ridings shot during the time of my and Beth’s wedding in May of 1992, and lots of warm stories. In my Ramble project, I also wanted to dedicate one of the few remaining entries to this phenomenal human being, who is still in my thoughts so often. Jan. 8, 2010 would have been her 100th birthday, and I was hustling to prepare this entry at that time, but the photo research has taken this long for me to complete. And so, it’s my sincere pleasure to share these words in honor of Granny Bea on what for the next 10 minutes remains Mother’s Day, 2010, when the absence of her and Grandma Bam in our lives is once again especially felt.

Ramble #7
by Roger Darnell

Always stirring up food for those to come,
making each arrival feel right at-home…
otherwise busying herself knitting love into
treasures for so many she yearned to hold
there with her in her quiet place, forever…
these scenes of Granny Bea at home give
off such a glow, it still warms the heart.

Ramble
January 17, 2008: #17
January 18, 2008: #16
February 1, 2009: #10
April 27, 2009: #9
October 3, 2009: #8
May 9, 2010: #7
August 18, 2010: #6
Arc of the Poet, Part 14: Ramblings (#5)
Arc of the Poet, Part 15: Being (#4-#2)

Author, communications consultant, publisher, and career guide Roger Darnell is principal of creative-industry PR firm, The Darnell Works Agency.

20 Comments on “May 9, 2010: Granny Bea Photo Tribute, Ramble #7

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